So myself and my boyfriend broke up a few days ago.. I thought my world was ending but it’s been 3 days since and I’m doing okay. I’m still living and doing just fine. I guess it’s just hard when someone gets into your daily routine of things and you get used to that person and everything you just kinda miss them and don’t know how to do stuff without them for a few days.
He was all I texted or all I called; so my phone has been almost useless to me lately. I know it sounds pretty stupid but it’s true. I don’t have a lot of friends, because he was my best friend.
Well now that I’m thinking of it I’m doing okay and I dealt with the breakup pretty good. But the way the breakup happened was really sh*tty; he just disappeared and stopped talking to me thinking he didn’t owe me an explanation at all. Finally he tells me “I’m sorry I can’t do it.”
He posts stuff on Twitter like I can’t see it.
But I don’t know he’s been following me back on all my social media and talking to me slowly. What do you guys think that means? What would you do?
Also, if you guys wanna hear about how I handle a long distance relationship and my relationship with my transgendered boyfriend let me know!
B.
I’ve been there so many times. And I know it’s harder than words can express, but you two broke up for a reason, and remembering that helps. Also, consider using this time to find yourself! Go out and meet new people! Don’t tie yourself down to him again.
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Thank you! I wish I could realize this for myself but it’s so hard for me right now.
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You’re going to be so happy soon. Just give it time. 😘
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💕💕💕💕💕
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the worst is when they disappear or fade out instead of being direct. But some people are conflict avoidant and unable to express emotions. Sucks, but maybe you could try and understand why he behaves that way and empathize with him. It will help you move on. For now, you don’t have to do anything except fall back and see how it plays out. Everything is working out in your favor. If he isn’t “the one” you will see one day why he had to leave. Cheers.
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Thank you for your nice comment, I really needed to hear that.
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you’re welcome. I’ve been there and it when they do that it makes you feel like you’re going nuts. Just find things you enjoy doing alone (even little things like taking walks, baths, writing, etc.) and find things to smile and laugh about, ways to relax, etc. and you will be better.
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That’s why I started this blog, so I could write my feelings. It’s helping me so much. I’m so glad I’m not the only one to feel like this!
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That’s good. It will help you get back to yourself. And then when the next person comes along, you will be less affected by their actions – because you’ve practiced being happy and occupied without them. Just keep writing. I write for similar reasons sometimes.
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